FROM CHILDHOOD BONDS TO ADULT BEHAVIORS: A COMPARATIVEANALYSIS OF ELAHI’S THE IDLE STANCE OF TIPPLER PIGEON AND MIRZA’S APLACE FOR US psychoanalysis, emotional suffering, attachment styles, behavior, woundedrelationship

Abstract

 Attachment theory is the study of how childhood relationships with caregivers can affect the behavior of an individual
in adulthood (Gibson,2020). The purpose of this study is to analyze Elahi’s “The Idle Stance of Tippler Pigeon” and
Mirza’s “A Place for Us” from the perspective of attachment theory. It aims to analyze the effects of childhood
attachments on an individual’s behavior later in life. Qualitative research paradigm is used for the current study.
Using Thais Gibson’s (2020) attachment theory, the study explores how an individual’s actions and behaviors are
shaped by their early relationships and connections with care givers. In Elahi’s “The Idle Stance of Tippler Pigeon”,
the dismissive avoidant attachment style is applied to analyze Zohaib’s relationships with his parents. This attachment
style develops due to his parent’s absence and mistreatment’ which causes him significant pain and stress. In Mirza’s
A Place for Us”, the fearful avoidant attachment is used to examine Amar’s relationship with his parents particularly
with his father which stems from his abusive behavior during childhood. Past memories and imaginations often remind
the characters of their wounded relationship with their parents. The research also discusses how the lack of love and
understanding, affects an individual’s psychological well-being. Finally, the study examines the long-term effects of
attachment styles from childhood into adulthood and highlights how the characters’ cope with their suffering through
various strategies and different ways.